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Adoption is big business
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Source
The source of the product - a healthy baby for adoption
- is a mother who is naive or temporarily without resources. She is
most likely in college or college-bound, from a higher socioeconomic
background and an intact family. Mothers from a less-affluent situation
may be used as well. Often they already have one or more children
who will miss their brother or sister and be affected by having a
mother who is suffering over the loss of her beloved baby.
It's easy to take advantage of a mother who is experiencing
morning sickness and other effects of pregnancy. Some mothers are
lured in to adoption industry websites while looking up scholarship
information on the web. Others are solicited through business cards,
newspaper ads or "Dear Birthmother" ads. Once a mother has
been targeted she often has a difficult time getting rid of brokers
(or an individual) even after she has said a definitive "no".
A mother still recovering from labor and delivery is no match for
top negotiators with their false promises of pictures, letters and
continuing contact with her child.
No mother can imagine in advance the joy she will
feel holding and caring for her child or how painful it will be for
her when her child is gone. Her motherhood may be discounted and legally
decimated but in truth she will always be the mother of her child.
* Note: The term "birthmother" is used here for search
engine placement ONLY. No mother is an incubator or a "birth
thing" - she is a mother.
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